1. Mental issues
The reason why I count this in is that I want to tell you that not all possible reasons about this issue are about you. In this case, you are not the factor that leads him to be in tardy in proposing you. Maybe your date has suffered some mental problems and don’t think marriage is a happy ending. Thus, he is more willing to keep the current situation rather than jump into the shackle of marriage. If so, you are supposed to talk with your date face to face. In this way, not only can you find out the specific reason but also you can let your date know that you care about him. If his mental issues indeed exist, you should be patient with him and try to untie his knot.
2. This may be the best result
If you have referred to all the possible reasons and you have already has a great conversations with your date, but none of them is accordant with yours, then maybe there is something else influencing your trans hookup relationship. As I mentioned above, your date should have proposed you if you have been together for over three years and he should have been delightful to do so if he is satisfied with this gay dating relationship. If the case is not like that, your date is possibly questioning your relationship. And you should do the same thing as well. Marriage is not the only destination of your lgbt dating relationship. Only when it is running in the right direction can it reach the destination. Thus, you should think over if the relationship is healthy or not. If the answer is negative, you should bow out of it in time which can bring you less harm.
3. He is not genuine to you
Logically speaking, a guy will try to propose his beloved girl as soon as possible to reassure himself and validate his girlfriend. While if he is loath to do so, maybe he hasn’t prepared for the marriage already. However, if your lgbt dating relationship last over 3 years, then this possibility must be ruled out. And regarding this issue, another possible reason is that he is not genuine to you or he doesn’t regard you as the person he wants to get married with. If so, there is no reason for you to stick to it. To put the fruitless relationship to an end, you should put the topic on the table and converse with him frankly. Keep in mind that you don’t linger around the relationship when it turns out that he is not genuine to you.