#Before You Start, Educate Yourself With the Basics
Most trans people aren't really in the mood to educate people when they're out on a date. So stop being a jerk on the date. Stop asking stupid questions and making your trans date embarrassed. They are not there with you to teach you lessons on being trans and explore their sexuality. If you really wanna know anything just google it. And search it yourself and also don't assume you know everything because all your knowledge came from some popular media lage that's not fully reliable. This is only natural. It is not possible to know everything and it’s not really your fault.
#Ask About What Your Date is Comfortable With and Respect That
For someone who doesn't have this kind of dysphoria, it may be hard to understand, but if the trans person you're dating says that a certain body part is off limits, respect that. You should be paying attention to their ease and comforts with you. Only then you can think of moving forward with them. It is about doing the things for each other not just for your selfish reasons.
Most trans people have body dysphoria, which means that they have an inherent discomfort with certain parts of their body, usually their primary and secondary sex characteristics. So they need extra care being with someone else. They may not feel as comfortable with you so easily as they do with their own self. So you need to take care of them with extra efforts.
Sometimes people can adapt a little as they become more familiar with you, but don't count on it. And this goes with everyone. Whether you are comfortable or not you are going to decide it and for the other person it's your duty to make them feel good with you.
#Remember That Your Date is More Than Just a Trans Person
You must learn that they also have the right to make their individual decisions. You cannot take anyone for granted. Do not assume things on your own. It's a date okay but it doesn't address you any kind of commitment. So do not rush yourself to the conclusions so quickly. Stay patient and things will happen at the right time for you. They might say yes to your proposal and it might be a no and sane thing goes with you also. So just keep this in mind.