Be open and be honest. I think it is very important in all relationships and all kinds of dating, especially relationships with trans people. Everyone don't want to feel like they are hiding something when dating trans people, and you also don't want to make other people think you are hiding something. I think all transsexual people need to come out as soon as possible, and that sound a little bit difficult for some people. I want to say that no matter who you are, just be open and be honest to yourself and your partner, especially if you want to have a serious relationship. Dating is a chance to know other people, if being trans is the biggest challenge in your life, you should be ready enough to face this challenge before ts date. I think everyone don't want to pretend to be someone you are not.
If you are not a normal woman, please don't hide the truth about who you are. No matter you are a trans man or woman, you should be proud about who you are. If you cannot change the reality, just accept it. In fact, transgender is a common topic now, so don't feel guilty if you are a trans person. No matter what kinds of topics are you talking about, there are many ways to disclose that you are trans. If you meet a super transphobic, things may become a little bit awkward. Don't feel uncomfortable if they cannot accept you as a trans person, it means nothing but none of them is the right one for you. You don't need to feel that you are missing something.
As a trans person, you should know that it is not a scary thing to tell other people you are trans. You choose to come out to them that you are trans, because you are honest and respect everyone you meet. If you are always hiding something when meeting someone, it is the main red flag, and how can you start a long term and serious relationship by this way. There is nothing wrong with being transsexual people, and it can never be the reason why you are less confident to meet and date cisgender people. Just be confident enough to date the one you want.